Why don't they understand that things always happen in chains, that you can never take only a single event out of them, in hope to reduce the overall negativity.
Things happen in chains, without a certain event, the consequent event will never ever happen. How can you say that some things, some decisions , are false or worthless or else, and you can be better off without them?
The way we got together is not changable, why would they know, for sure at least, that what we have can be perfected?